The Adventures of a Twenty-Something in a city called Manila.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Phil's Tip #1: Wag mong balikan ang ulam na inayawan mo na. Panis na yan!

I've been itching to blog again for quite some time and NOW is the perfect time to do it.

You see I've started to create simple tips I learned about life and posted it on my facebook page. Friends (thanks jakey!) requested to have these blogged so they can read more.. Ibigay ang hilig!


Ang ulam (READ: Ex BFs, GFs, MUs, Flings, with the exception of FUBUs of course) sabi nila ay wag na wag mo nang balikan after mong tanggihan. It will just bring about a lot of complications esp if you guys are in and out of your "relationship".

True. And False. Its like being torn between letting go and giving each other the chance to be happy and hoping that something good will still come along your way. Its like choosing between "I need to be happy" and "Sayang naman" (while listening to "What Might Have Been" by Lou Pardini.)

Sabi nila walang gamot sa:

  • Hopeless Romantic
  • Martir
  • Kagagahan
  • Katangahan 
  • at Manhid
My advise? You have to go back to what makes you attracted to the person. Is it just physical? Or something deeper? Can you see yourself growing out of the relationship and moving on to find your own life? 

Tanging ikaw lamang ang makakasagot nyan...

Pero kung ikaw ay nasa Limbo State - you dont know if you wanna get out or give it another shot, you will still end up somewhere. 

As my gud friend perrybwoi puts it, "Kung walang ulam, Pagtyagaan. Pagpag din yan!"

Ikaw, gusto mo ba ng pagpag?

4 comments:

  1. Pagpag? Hmmm... madaming uri ng pagpag e... yung pagkain, yung pag naglilinis, tsaka... well alam mo na. Naligaw ata ng post itong comment ko. sa Higa este Phil's Tip #2 ata to dapat. Hahahah!

    Nice naman special mention sila Jake at Periwinkle. :D

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  2. I meant ung "Alam mo na". I think. =)

    Yeah u know Periwinkle pala... Small world.

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  3. Thought so! Hahahah!
    Yeah P and I shared some cirle of friends 4 years ago. :P

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